‘Good-by for now’

'Good-by for now'

A Syracuse University photographer explores the parallel lives she shares with her grandfather.
Published: February 22, 2023
While normally the person behind the camera, David F. Butler -- or
While normally the person behind the camera, David F. Butler -- or "Pop" as I called him -- was the subject of this coastal vacation photo.

Knowing where I came from as far as my family is one thing. Discovering just how similar my life is to my grandfather I called “Pop” is quite another.

David Francis Butler was drafted into military service in 1967 as an Army chaplain’s assistant for two years. The stint was his only break from a nearly four-decades career at Kodak‘s research, instant photography and government project divisions in Rochester, N.Y. As an amateur photographer, Kodak was a good place to work as it he had a passion for snapping pictures his whole life.

My time at Syracuse University has been mostly split between being an Army ROTC cadet and Photography major in the Newhouse School. I will graduate in 2024 as an officer in the Army — making me only the second person in our family along with my grandfather to serve in the military. And I certainly foresee photography as part of my professional and personal life ahead.

My grandfather would struggle with Lewy body dementia, closing out his time at Kodak in 2002 and eventually taking his life in 2014. I was in middle school at the time Pop died, and it still saddens me that we only had the 12 years of my life to be together.

A decade later, I realized I have been subconsciously following in Pop’s footsteps. This project was dedicated to understanding Pop better, learn more about his extraordinary life and potentially see where life could take me.

A letter Pop typed to his parents, layered over one of my photos. In the letter, Pop thanks them for birthday presents they gave him when they last visited and shares updates on what's happening for him and my grandmother, Jan. He signed it
A letter Pop typed to his parents, layered over one of my photos. In the letter, Pop thanks them for birthday presents they gave him when they last visited and shares updates on what's happening for him and my grandmother, Jan. He signed it "Good-by for now, Alter Boy, Dave."
154 Woodhill apartments, Rochester NY, Where pop lived with his wife Jan and newborn Todd, my dad. They lived here for a little bit from 1970 to 1972 after pop left the army and Jan had Todd.

Pop, Jan and my father, Todd, lived at the 154 Woodhill Apartments in Rochester, N.Y., from 1970-1972 as Pop returned to Kodak following his stint in the Army.

Alternative Melbourne Green where Pop and his wife lived from 2005 to 2012. This house is the place I have the most vivid memories of pop. Downstairs was his workshop where he made many things like bird houses and wooden vases. We spent many christmas days here, and many momories of pop falling asleep in his recliner.

From 2005-2012, Pop and Jan lived on Melbourne Green near Fairport where I have my most most vivid memories of my grandfather from Christmas gatherings to him falling asleep in his recliner. Also, downstairs in the basement was a workshop where Pop made items like birdhouses and wooden vases.

132 Gotham Rochester NY, where pop lived with his son, Todd, Daughter Tamara, and wife Jan, from about 1977 to 1993. While todd, my dad was in highschool. Around back a deck pop built still stands.
The Butler family lived at 132 Goethals Dr. in Rochester from about 1977-1993, where my father, Todd, and Aunt Tamara spent most of their childhoods. Today, the deck that Pop built still stands.
Pop took this photo of his camera and camera bag that award a contest prize, which he was extremely proud of. I'm proud that I now have the bag and camera he used to take the photo.

Pop took this photo of his camera and camera bag that award a contest prize, which he was extremely proud of. I'm proud that I now have the bag and camera he used to take the photo.

This box, which originally came from Boy Scout camp in Philmont, New Mexico, in 1959, includes an Army medal and Kodak pins Pop collected. Underneath the box is a newspaper clipping that mentioned him attending Philmont.

This box, which originally came from Boy Scout camp in Philmont, New Mexico, in 1959, includes an Army medal and Kodak pins Pop collected. Underneath the box is a newspaper clipping that mentioned him attending Philmont.

This merges a photo that Pop took of an Army chaplin delivering a sermon while he served as a chaplin's assistant and my own photo of leaves floating on a lake. My grandfather has always been my biggest inspiration for photography so I treasure being able to blend our work together.
This merges a photo that Pop took of an Army chaplain delivering a sermon while he served as a chaplain's assistant and my own photo of leaves floating on a lake. My grandfather has always been my biggest inspiration for photography so I treasure being able to blend our work together.
Other than two years in the Army, Pop worked for Kodak in downtown Rochester, N.Y., from 1965 to 2002 when his illness made it difficult.
Other than two years in the Army, Pop worked for Kodak in downtown Rochester from 1965 to 2002 when his illness made it difficult.
A collection of photos of David F. Butler (aka

A collection of photos of Pop throughout his young life including an embrace with my grandmother on the right.

The wood-working tool Pop was given by his father and passed along to my father. Always handy, Pop helped make my family's fireplace, birdhouses and vases among other items.

The wood-working tool Pop was given by his father and passed along to my father. Always handy, Pop helped make my family's fireplace, birdhouses and vases among other items.

A photo of Pop standing next to a glass cabinet he made for my parents. The photo sits in the same cabinet to this day.
A photo of Pop standing next to a glass cabinet he made for my parents. The photo sits in the same cabinet to this day.